I’m not like most girls. For example, I’d rather watch ‘Harold and Kumar’ than ‘The Notebook’ and I’d rather play Halo 2 than knit or scrapbook. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE to shop and I really enjoy baking and entertaining, but in general my tastes and preferences are geared towards more guy-centric things.
Maybe that’s why most other girls and I don’t mix. They don’t get me and I don’t get them. If I have a problem with someone, I’m upfront about it. It’s how I was raised. My mom (who incidentally doesn’t get along well with other woman either) and I can get really pissed off about something, fight about it and then 20 minutes later we’re both over it…like it never even happened. I find that most guys work this way too, bring an issue up, discuss or fight about whatever it is and then it’s just done. I love that - I live that - it’s the way things should be done.
I find that most females I come into contact with just don’t/can’t/won’t fight like that. If you confront a female about something you’re upset about OR if you can tell that they have a problem with you and ask them about it…you get nothing. You know what I mean, when a chick is acting distant and you just KNOW that they have an issue with you and you confront them they’re all like “What are you talking about? I don’t have a problem with you. Everything is fine.” Only to hear from someone else later that that problem you already knew they had with you has really been pissing them off so much that they are TALKING ABOUT YOU BEHIND YOUR BACK!
Why? Seriously,why? If you have a problem with ME talk to ME about it, don’t talk about me behind my back. That’s immature, cowardly and pathetic. And what does it accomplish? Do you need to find people to give only your side of the story to so that they’ll side with you? DO you need to make the person look bad in the eyes of others so you can feel better about ‘your side’ of things?
Bullshit. Fight it out, bitch. I mean, if you really feel strongly that you’re justified to feel the way you feel, have the balls to talk it out with the appropriate person. Just try it, I promise if you do you will feel so much better than holding all that shit in that you’re later going to unleash on the person anyway.
And ladies, if you’re feeling me, think about this…do you honestly think that the chick who talks about people behind their backs TO YOU doesn’t talk ABOUT YOU behind your back? Because she either does or has and you’re stupid if you think otherwise. I learned that lesson the hard way.
Yeah, this post went way off course but whatev. I’ve been having a rough time of it lately.
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January 5, 2008 at 12:28 am
dannette campbell
Go girl. I totally agree 100% with all you said about the backstabbing thing. I am also straight forward and to the point when it comes to getting things off my chest(as is my mother) and it has gotten me into trouble on more than one occasion. I have a sister in law just like the afore mentioned backstabbing bitches. I can totally see your point of veiw. But I have come to a point my my life where I say screw them all!! Love me for me. Don’t like it? Stiff shit! They obviously have nothiing better to do with their sad little lives. They need to take a long hard look at themselves and grow the hell up. But like I always say. What goes around comes around!!